What’s Going to Happen to My Business?

Hello, everyone. Welcome to the 21 Hats podcast. I'm your host, Lauren Feldman. This week, Jay Golz tells us that on second thought, he did learn something important watching HBO's succession. He still wants to work as long as he can, even he's quick to volunteer if that means dying at his desk. But he now realizes, thanks in part to Logan Roy, that he needs to put a plan in place in case something were to happen sooner than expected. This realization was also furthered by hearing the sad story of a 51 year old entrepreneur who died in his sleep recently, leaving his wife to figure out how to keep their bank from calling its loan. Now, as part of his hit by a bus plan, Jay says he's crossing streets very carefully, but also considering creating a board of advisors that will be able to offer advice to his survivors. But that's a little tricky because, as you may have noticed, Jay's not exactly a board of advisors kind of guy. So this one's still a work in progress. 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I wanted to take this opportunity to, to get an update on where you're thinking about succession stands. It's, it's kind of funny cause I brought it up kind of half joking recently when I asked you to talk about your reaction to watching the HBO series Succession. But I've realized in our since then, that your thinking has continued to evolve and that you're, you're still figuring things out. Um, so I thought maybe we could kind of review some of the things that have influenced your thinking and get a read on where you stand now. So, to start, when, when I asked you about watching Succession, I asked you if you had learned anything from watching it and you responded, absolutely not. But I gather from our talks since then that you've thought further about that. Yeah, this is, it would be like. If you were enjoyed downhill skiing and you watched a TV series watching people get killed skiing every day, I don't know how it couldn't affect your thinking about. So it has affected it and then I realized, wow, um, if I got run over by the, you know, the boss. Would everything fall in place and everyone, no, it'd be a mess. And one thing that I've realized is there's really two completely, well, I don't know if they're completely separate, but they're separate issues. One is long term, what are you going to do with the business? And the second piece is, what if there is no long term and you just, you know, Get run over by the boss. That's a whole other subject, which I hadn't thought enough about. I can't tell you that I've got everything in place well enough that, you know, I just got a book, Harvard Business Review, Family Business Handbook, how to build and sustain a Successful Enduring Enterprise. I haven't read it yet, but I recognize. I need to do more to attempt to get things in place. Attempt is the key word being there. This topic came up a couple of years ago in a conversation we did on this podcast with William and Paul. And as I recall, neither you nor Paul really had, uh, a plan if, if you got hit by that bus. But William did. He described a very thorough approach to a kind of a break in an emergency box that he has. That lays out everything anyone would need to know, uh, and establishes, you know, a process, what should happen. You obviously didn't do anything after that conversation. What, what changed? Well, I do have a thing typed out about, you know, just some thoughts about it, but I didn't actually put anything in place, like, here's a board, here's a, I, I, I, I, I could do more, that's for sure. So I haven't done anything with that. And 2 is, When we had that conversation, I was 65, now I'm 67, and it makes a difference. And I have to tell you, on top of this, on top of watching Succession, and on top of my son who gave me this book, Dad, we really need to do this. OK, I'm not arguing with that. The third thing is, I've got a longtime supplier that I've been buddies with since I was 22 years old, and he took over his family business, and he's 72, and much to my surprise, he just sold it and now he's gonna work for the guy. And his kid's also working there. He's gonna work for the person, and it just shook me up a little bit. It's just like, wow, um, it just surprised me. So let me stop you there for a second. Do you know that that was not a good outcome? No, no, not at all. I just recognize he took over the family business and worked hard and did a good job and made a really good living for years, and I'm an entrepreneur. I went from 0. My business is More than twice the size of his, and he was, I think, working more in it than on it, as they always say. And, and maybe this was the perfect solution for him. I, I just, between that and another guy, you know, who also took over the family business, he told me he's got two kids in it. They're in their 40s, and he has announced to them, I need to look out for myself. The building is now worth more than the business, and he might just sell. Building and be done with it. So the point is, I'm having a hard time finding one business that went from 1st generation to 2nd generation that they pull it off. And it's just has made me think that you kind of got to work at this. And, uh, both of those stories, it's, you know, as you get older and you, your friends start to retire and stuff. In this case, it's just, how can you not say, wow, what's gonna happen to my business? So it's making me. Think more. Let me ask you what you mean by that finding one business that has pulled it off, because I, I know you've talked a lot about being in uh peer groups, where one of your concerns was that you were with a lot of second generation owners. So obviously, it does happen. Are you saying that just in your circle, you're not, you've seen some examples that didn't go the way? Um, actually, that's a fair question. I haven't been in business groups. For, you know, a while now. Uh, these are people that I was personally doing business with. So that's different. But B, I look at some of those 2nd generation, not pretty. Lots of them were going broke while I was in the business group with them. Lots of them were miserable. Lots of them were fighting with their father or fighting with their brother. So, it, it wasn't always pretty. Was there any examples? Sure, now that you mention it, yes, I can think of a couple of them. But not many. I don't know if the statistics are right, but they say only 20% of businesses get to the second generation. It's a matter of what are your objectives. Maybe getting it to the next generation isn't an important objective. Maybe you've made enough money and it's time to just hang it up. I mean, that is, you know, in many cases the way it goes. It seems to me, and this, I'm only speaking for myself, that's for sure. Number one, money. How important is it? OK, the money in my case is not gonna make a difference for my family's lifestyle. I've, I own the real estate along the way. And the real estate is actually more valuable in total than the business. So this isn't about, oh my God, I got to squeeze every dollar out of this business, or, you know, we're not gonna retire, my wife's not gonna, whatever. So, so the money's 12 is family. In some cases, it's just, how do you integrate your family into the business and have them take it over, or maybe they want nothing to do with it. So it's really figuring out, in my case, I just don't want my kids and my wife to be happy. I, if they don't want to be in It's fine. 3, your employees, I certainly want to do everything I can to keep them gainfully employed and look out for them. I'll do what I can. I don't know that I can pull that off, but I certainly am going to try. And lastly, my customers have been a loyal customer base for 45 years. I most certainly would like to be able to continue to take care of their, you know, what they're buying, and that would be a shame. But again, there's only so much control over they have over there. So, in my mind, those are 4 completely different objectives, and some people would be completely in a different order, and some people are hung up on legacy or whatever, and some people absolutely need to get every dollar out of the business. So it depends where your head's at. So those are the objectives. Let me ask you about the employee one a little bit there, because that's been part of our conversation. You got real interested in possibly doing an ESO. Uh, at one point, as you learned about how that works and the opportunity to not have to pay taxes, uh, the more you learned, the more unsure you were, and ultimately, you decided that it wasn't right for you. Just to be clear, I'm not unsure at all anymore. I know for me, it makes no sense. That, that was my conclusion after thinking about it for six months and looking into it, for sure, doesn't make sense for me. I'm sure it makes sense for other people. And when you came to that conclusion, you thought about other ways that you might be able to do well by your employees. And part of what had kicked this off was your concern that not enough of them are saving for their own retirements. You thought about doing something that you were calling for a while a 401J, the idea being, well, maybe you can explain it. You were gonna it's very simple. I realized you could just go ahead and give them a certain percentage of their salary into their. 1K plan, you've checked the box for saving taxes and you check the box from them retiring, and that's a good plan if in fact the business continues on. And I, I think that is something that is a, is a viable thing for many companies. So, is that still something you're considering? Sure, but that's assuming the business is going on and I'm healthy and I go to work, you know, I, I'm not in a profession like a dentist or a lawyer or something. There's some people that they need to retire at some point. Because it's either mentally or too physically demanding. When you own a business and you're not actually doing the work every day, I think you could work pretty much however you want to or can't. I might be coming to work on M82. I, frankly, I hope I'm going to work on M82, so I have no desire whatsoever to retire and go to Florida and go sit on a boat or do whatever it is that none. We know your view of golf. Yes, so, no. So I'm perfectly happy, um, I, I talked to a guy who's, who did an ESOP for big money, real big money. Someone gave me his name and he was, you know, very open about it. And he goes, Oh, I've got 2 houses down here and 2 boats. He goes, You don't want to die at your desk. And I go, Yeah, I'm not sure that's true. I don't know that dye at your desk is the worst thing. So we laughed, and at the end of it, he said, Yeah, you shouldn't do an ESOP. So, in my particular case, I want to go to work, I, at the moment, as long as I can. So that's probably an unusual piece of the puzzle. I don't think I'm the only one though. I know numerous people that feel the same way. So that's part of the whole thing. So yeah, the 401k thing certainly could solve taking care of employees. But as far as the long-term employment, yeah, it'd be best if you could figure out how to keep the company going, for sure. There's some irony in the fact that you actually worked with Bo Burlingham when he wrote his book on this, on the topic of succession. You came up with the title, uh, Finish Big. Well, remember, let's give me Credit. The reason it came to me is I gave him a small giant, so I'm his title guy. I'm very proud of that. I did read the book. It was a great book. That was a while ago. I think it didn't address the situation you just described, uh, which is, I think the book is is more about helping business owners find exits. It's less for someone who is more open to the idea of dying at their desk. Or, or, or bringing the family in, I mean, um, that's the point, it's, it's about Exiting, but not necessarily selling it. Incredibly coincidentally, my banker calls me who I'm tight with, and she tells me she's got a 51 year old customer that she was moving from the old bank to the new bank, and he died in his sleep. And the widow's calling her, obviously extremely upset about not only her husband dying, but she had to tell the widow, I have to tell you something that I don't want you to overreact or worry about, but You are now in technical default with the bank, which means they can call the loan. They can call the loan, and the woman's very upset and unfortunately, she hadn't yet transferred it over to her bank. It's still at the old bank, and the woman had been calling for 2 days to the old bank who was bought by the conglomerate, the big bank. She left messages. Now, keep in mind, her husband died on Sunday. Monday, she's calling the bank. Tuesday with urgent message, no one's called her back. That's the reality of what goes on in the world. I'm like, I certainly don't want to put my wife. In that situation, nobody should want to leave their husband or wife or kids in that situation. So I do think it's really prudent to go through and just have some kind of plan in place, because, um, if not, I believe that you could be making it 10 times worse for whoever's left behind. Have you put enough thought into this to know what the most important elements of a, you know, hit by the bus plan would be? No, but OK. I, I believe it probably is going to include having some board you put together that you know the people well, you've got relationships with them, and you've had meetings with them, you've had conversations, so they are best equipped to assist in what to do with the business, versus, this is my nightmare. And it was part of it was in succession. What would they want? Oh, dad's rolling, that would, that would just the. First thing, oh, Dad's turning in his grave. Oh, this is, this is pissing on dad's leg. I don't want any of that stuff. I want them to be well equipped, to be as well educated as possible and do what's best for them. And I did put that on my, my letter of, do whatever you feel is necessary. The last thing I want to do is hang this on my wife or kids, like, you have to figure out how to keep this going. Like, I, I want to do as much as I can. To try to make a smooth transition, which is 180 degrees from what happened in succession. Could it have been a bigger shit show? I don't think so. I mean, the siblings going after each other, everybody thinks they should be left in charge. Well, you mentioned the, uh, the idea of having a board that can provide some guidance and help to go through this transition, and you mentioned that it would be essential for them to be familiar with the business and to You know, know what's been going on. You, you've been running your company for quite a few years now. You could have created a board at any point for other reasons to help you manage the company to have, you know, inside and outside directors, and that doesn't sound like a Jay Goltz kind of thing. You have no, it isn't. I have absolutely no. No, no, I really, I don't, I, you know what people say, I, I joined the, the business group because, you know, they hold me accountable. Like that makes me wanna vomit. Really? You need someone to hold you accountable. What what is that? This is just me, again, I don't want to preach to anybody in my mind. If you own your own business, take responsibility for yourself and do what you need to do. I, I certainly don't need a business buddy to go, Hey, Jay, I thought you were the only reason to have a board. It's not just to have somebody, uh, hold you accountable. It's also to get diverse opinions about decisions. I guess I'm just thinking out loud here. Could I find some people and put them around the table? I certainly talk to people and get, you know, and get input from people. I'm not trying to talk you into this. I just, it's just not on my list of things to do. Like, gee, I wish I had, but actually it is. You're, you're, you are saying now it is, yeah, now it is. I'm not here, right? But, but you can't have the board that ignites the moment you go, is that what you're saying? Or are you gonna have them prepared and involved in the business before you get hit by the bus? That's an excellent question. That's an excellent question. I'm on that journey. I think you have to have them in place. Yeah, I, I can do that, and I, and I will do that. No, no, that makes sense. I, I just, I can't, you know, you get to, to 67. It's like, who knows what's happening? And I, I just, I wanna do whatever I can to avoid any potential nightmares. You know, you hear those radio ads all the time, oh, nobody wants to talk about life insurance. I do. I don't have a problem talking. Like, let's be grown-ups and deal with reality and not leave our, the woman I just talked about who's, whose husband died. What a horrible story that is. It is. So I'm gonna do what I can, but you're right, I should, I should put it together before you get hit by the bus. Yes, yes. And I'm very careful when I cross the street, I want to mention, because I don't want to get hit by the bus. Take a step back for a second. There are lots of people leaving businesses right now. They, many of them want to sell them and are finding out that they just can't. Do it in part because they didn't prepare to do it. They didn't do the things they would have needed to do to get the business in shape to be sellable. Let me tell you one that's just interesting. My son does real estate development, and he's bought several legendary businesses, mostly restaurants, that ended up getting bulldozed. Why? What happened was, they stopped paying rent to themselves because the building was paid for. And frankly, their prices were too cheap. I went to dinner at one of these legendary places. Everything on the menu was at least 10% under what you would have thought it would have been. All they would have needed to do is treat the building as a business and treat the business as a business. And instead, they were subsidizing the business with the building that they weren't paying a mortgage on, and it made the business unsalable. What a shame. All they would have had to do was raise prices, they would have made money and someone could have bought the existing business. So that happens all the time. So the question is, we've got this whole infrastructure of consultants and specialists out there waiting to help businesses, and yet we have all these businesses that are struggling to figure out a way to exit. You've been on this journey. Can you explain that? Absolutely. As we all know, I'm a business junkie. I love figuring stuff out and trying to figure out how to do things right, and I can tell you I spent all morning. Looking for the family business advisor that would be the right one. I talked to some people I know. They gave me a list of people I should talk to. And on the list, I went to about 4 websites, 3 of them don't have phone numbers. You should just email them. And like, I don't call that really customer driven. Did you enter an email? No, I just I want to deal with customer-driven people. I find it insulting. I really do. And then I found one, a major university that is a well-known, a family business thing. I called them. I left a message on Tuesday, and I never got a call back. And then there's another university that it's Thursday, so that's 2 days. OK, really, it, it should take them a week to call a prospective customer? I mean, really, I, I just, so maybe they'll call me tomorrow. Maybe they're calling right now. I don't know. All I know is, it's not like they've done a good job of marketing and going out there and getting to people like me and saying, hey, listen, we've got some services. They don't do a great outbound marketing thing. They're not making it easy to find them. And my guess is they get their businesses when it's already in distress. I can just tell you from being a consumer and owning a business, I don't see ads for these things. I, I get emails for all kinds of stupid stuff. I can't think of the last time I got an email from someone saying, hey, we're with the Blankety Blank Family Business Center. We'd love to invite you to a, I haven't seen it. So just like the ESOP experience I went through, I don't think these companies are great at reaching out and finding entrepreneurs. I could, I, I, I'm not exaggerating when I tell you this. I get 3 emails or phone calls a week for that ERC credit. It's like never ends, you know, the employee ERTC, the employee retention tax credit. Yeah, I'm telling you, not exaggerate. I was at, I was at the cleaners yesterday. The guy was helping me. The owner picks up the phone. I can hear he's talking to someone calling him. Like, there's a whole army of these companies, a lot of money to be made on that tax credit. I can't think of one outreach that I've seen for a family business, um, company that helps you with these trends. I don't think they're marketing right. And as a result, I think a lot of these businesses could have been saved, salvaged, whatever. Do you think it's mostly a marketing problem or an expertise problem? Do people just not know what the answer is? Oh, I think it's both. I have a friend. He's an electrician. He's gonna retire one of these days. I go, well, well, clearly your business. No, it's not worth anything. I go, you got a phone number, you got a 40-year history. He's convinced that his business is worthless, and I've talked to him more than once. I gave up on it. I'm confident that somebody would pay him something for his business. So I think people just don't understand how to sell their business and don't put a lot of energy into it, and they just go out of business. It happens all the time. Do you know with your friend what the key issue is? What could he have done that he didn't do to prepare for this day? A, he apparently has enough money that he needs to sell it, um, which is, I believe, the case. That's a good thing. Yeah, I think he, um, I don't know. I just think that he, I, I don't know. He just never focused on it I don't know, it's just like, you think it would make sense to him when I go, wait a second, you have a phone number, you do. This is the same conversation. I'll tell you, it's the end of the same movie. All of the people that I'm talking about like that, they don't have great looking websites. They don't have any marketing to speak of. They built a business by word of mouth. They've made a really good living for years. They're good at what they do, but. But they don't turn all the dials. And in my case, turning all the dials means when you're done, figure out how to sell your business for something and keep your employees working. And I just don't think people are thinking about it. Or how about this one, they just drop dead, game, I mean, they didn't have a choice to do it, you know, and then what, that the kids are supposed to figure it out, the husband, the wife is supposed to figure it out. It's a shame. It's, it's absolutely a shame. Think about it. You gotta think there's a competitor out there that could make good use out of your mailing list, out of your phone number, and I see, I've seen it with frame shops. Um, they just close. I mean, they're worth something, even if you can't sell it, clearly, the phone number, the mailing list, a letter from the ex-owner saying, hey, here's who I rec. That's gotta be worth something. Even if it's $20,000 why wouldn't you, they don't do it. I mean, that's just the way it is. You've talked to us a lot about starting your business at a time when, you know, that infrastructure we've been talking about didn't exist. You didn't have a mentor, uh, there weren't lots of programs that you could turn to for, for help, for advice. And it's kind of, here we are 40 years later, it all sounds like you, you're still on the, the same journey figuring it out for yourself. So, do I think it's better now? Marginally, do I think the universities are doing a great job of preparing people to start their own business from what I've seen, or to sell their own business? Yeah, right. Um, no, absolutely not. I, I've talked to enough students, I've spoken at these classes, I've seen what their outlines are, and it gets down to this, in my mind, is why small business is difficult. If you went into accounting, you'd get a degree, you'd work in an accounting firm, you'd be mentored, you figure out how to do it. Law, same thing. Medicine, same thing, advertising, same thing. Car mechanic, same thing. You go in business for yourself. The degree is certainly it's worth having an accounting class, no question about it, but the marketing, the management piece, from what I can see, they're still not, who's teaching these classes? Academics, teachers that have never been out there running businesses. A medical schools, the person teaching you is a doctor. The doctor who's looked into people's eyes that said, listen, I'm sorry to tell you, but you've got 4. I mean, they, they, they've they've been doctors. They can relate. There are people who built and run businesses who do some form of teaching. I mean, you, you can find, maybe not, and maybe not enough. OK. So you've got that piece that it's not as teachable as these other professions and then secondly, you're on your own. I mean, that's why we do 21 hits. I, I don't know where they're supposed to be mentored from. You're in business for yourself. And unfortunately, I had to learn the same lessons that the person had to learn in 1843. I mean, it's not like there was a book out there that you could read, oh, here's how you wrote it. Now we get to the end of the road to selling your business. It shouldn't be a surprise to any of us that people aren't prepared to sell their business. And like I said, I'm, I read things, I listen to things. I haven't heard any of them, reaching out to business owners and reaching out to get people to, to get educated on what all the possibilities are and all the things to think about because what I've figured out in just the last few days. This is more complicated than it appears. It just is. You got the family piece, the employee piece, the money piece, the customer piece, the legal piece. There's just a lot of things here, and I am confident if somebody had some good counsel, they could do much better than what's happening now, which is in most cases, I think that's a fair statement. In most cases, the business just closes one day. So back to your situation, as we've discussed many times since we first started talking about these kinds of issues, you have two kids that work in the business. You, at various points, haven't been entirely sure whether they wanted to take over the business ultimately, uh, or, or not. Where does that stand today? Two of them work here, one's in charge of the, you know, the, the IT stuff, and the other one is, is taking care of real estate and dealing with some financial stuff and is taking care of some projects that we need to be working on. They both are here, they both seem to be want to be here. Will they want to be here in 10 years? Will they want to be here in 10 weeks, I don't know, and I keep telling them. If you don't want to be here, you know, it's OK. I don't, I don't want to hang it on them. But it sounds like you may need to prepare for the possibility that they don't want to take over the business. Yeah, absolutely. I don't want to hang that on them. I, I, it's not like either of them has said, no, I'm 100% sure I want to be running this company in 20 years. I don't want to force them into doing that. And, and the other issue is, if I stay healthy, could I be going to work at 82? Yeah, I could. I, I know people that go to work at 82. It's not. Yeah. So, the point is I got to have some contingency plans and I want to put something in place that is flexible. And my number one priority, there's no question, I'm, I'm not gonna call this a balancing act. My number one priority is that my family is happy and no one feels cornered with anything, and they're doing what they want to do. And my #2 priorities, I want to try to do the best I can with my employees. And my #3 thing is, is money. I, luckily, because I own the real estate, I don't have to depend on this to be my retirement egg. So, but like I said, it's far trickier than I used to think about, and I wasn't thinking about that much. Why would somebody? Um, but succession certainly helped that along, cause, uh, watching that. It was just painful. I've just, I've just realized, yeah, I need to work harder on this, and I am. Do you have a guess as to what your ultimate plan might be, uh, in terms of the contingency plan if your kids don't take over? At the moment, my guess is, if I sold it to a third party, they would screw it up. I'm truly, pretty confident of that, and I got a weird business. I got 45 different businesses, you know, I've got 2 different art businesses, but, you know, I think they would screw it up. 2, I think my employees would pay the price for it. So at the moment, my best options, I believe, are either my kids oversee it to some degree and stick with it, or I figure out some kind of we up and work it out. A software you sell it to a key or a couple of key employees. Yeah, but that's got a problem also. If I'm working in 15 years, my key employees are gonna be in their 60s. So that's, that's not gonna work either. It would actually have to be with other people that have come in since, so it's It depends when that event happens. Um, it could be in a month, it could be in 15 years, so that's why I say I can't tell you that I'm gonna have the perfect plan, but I certainly can do something to at least have some options. Most of the advice that I do here given to business owners is, here's how you exit. Here's how you sell the business, you, here's how you get out of it. You don't hear a lot of discussion about what, here's how you continue to run it as long as you are enjoying getting something out of, uh, running it. That's easy. No one's making money on that one. No one's making money by convincing you to keep running your business where, oh, you want, let me do a evaluation for you, and let me do some training for you. And like, it's a whole industry, and like, I can't blame them, that's fine, but there's no incentive for anybody promoting, hey, why don't you just keep running your business and don't worry about it. No one's gonna make any money on that. That's related to the issue. Lots of people I know have said to you, you need to hire a #2. And it's a lot trickier to hire a #2 when you're planning on running the business as long as you can. No, absolutely. I mean, it, it to go hire somebody. Oh, Jay, when are you gonna retire? Yeah, maybe 15 years from now, maybe next month. I don't know. I, I just don't know how, at this stage, I don't know what the person would be doing. I, I sit at my desk and, you know, watch what I do, go on the podcast. Lauren's calling. Here, will you do the podcast today? Lauren, I got somebody to take my place today. I, you know, I, it's, that's why I say anyone who goes, oh no, you should have a succession, OK, you can try to have a succession plan. I'm all for that. I just don't know that it can be ironclad if you were in my mindset, which is I want to work as long as I can. That's, and you're right, you don't hear about it anywhere. I haven't. That was Logan Roy's plan on succession. That's exactly what his plan was. Yeah. And, you know, is his age in the show, he was 80. I mean, Rupert Murdoch, who you got the show was, he's 92, he's going to work every day, right? I mean, so, you know, I don't know, I, I'm certainly not. I don't, I, I mean, I don't want to, there was a, for those of you old enough to remember, LA Law, I'll never forget this cause it, what was that? 30 years ago maybe, at least. They've got the father and the son in a lawsuit. The son is uh 50 something, the father. There's 80 something and they're suing each other for control. And finally, the lawyer who's friends with both of them says to the guy, he was, Benny, whatever his name was, Benny, why are you suing? What what's the, why are you, why are you in this lawsuit? And the old man just wistfully looks away and he says, I don't want to be the old man just sitting in the corner. And the son gets very emotional. Oh, Dad, you, and they hugged each other and it solved the whole problem, but like, I don't want to hang out too long either. I mean, if I'm not providing any value and I've just turned into the cranky old man, I set you up for that one. You can say, Jay, you're already there. There you go. Uh, I don't want to just be the cranky old man who's picking up nails or, you know, I, I, I, there, there might come a time where you're no longer serving a purpose. I'm not sure I want to work till the, the day I die. Probably don't, but there's clearly a, a place in between. And, um, so one of the options would be, my kids lose interest, don't want to do it. I bring somebody else in. Yeah, maybe. That's why I say there's lots of options. I just want to be as prepared as I can be. And I know I'm not alone in this, as much as you say unusual. OK, maybe it's not 50%, but I'll bet you it's 20, 30% of people would like to work into their 80s, I think. I know some of them. I think most of the business owners that I've spoken with do imagine an exit at some point and then then looking for something else to do, um, you know, maybe. No, I'll tell you what, a lot of people are listening. Send Lauren an email. Let's do an informal thing. Let's see if we can get 100 responses. Are you planning on retiring or do you want to work as long as you can um and be productive? That would be Lauren, L O R E N at 21, the number 2, the number one hats.com. I'd love to hear from you. I'd love to get those 100 responses. My thanks to Jay Goldz and to our sponsor, the Great Game of Business, which helps businesses use an open book management system to build healthier companies. You can learn more at greatgame.com and please do send me that email, Lauren at 21 hats.com. Wait, wait, don't leave yet. 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